Chinese Wedding Traditions And Culture

In Chinese tradition, a marriage ceremony is a solemn and sacred occasion. There are several steps in Chinese wedding traditions that you should know. Traditional Chinese wedding arrangement has a long procession. A marriage will be decided not by the young couple but by the wishes of their parents.

Only after a matchmaker’s introduction and parents’ consideration of the two family conditions include wealth and social status were similar and matched, the marriage procedures go forward. The essential to the marriage process is commonly recognized as three letters and six etiquettes.

Chinese wedding traditions

Chinese Wedding Traditions

The three letters consist of the betrothal letter, the gift letter with a gifts list, and the wedding letter used on the day the groom meet his bride at her home.

While the six etiquettes refer to the six steps that people follow in Chinese wedding traditions include the proposal, birthday conciliation, presenting betrothal gifts, presenting wedding gifts, selecting the wedding date, and wedding ceremony.


The boy family will invite a matchmaker to propose with them at the girl’s home. If the proposal is successful, the matchmaker will be rewarded with profuse gifts and feasts to show the two families’ gratitude. The unmarried young people cannot see each other until their wedding day.

Birthday Matching

After knowing the girl’s full name and her birthday, they will ask a fortune teller to predict whether they will match and will be a happy marriage or not based on the Chinese zodiac.

Presenting Betrothal Gifts

If the match is predicted to be a good sign, the matchmaker will take gifts to the girl’s parents and tell them that the process could continue.

Chinese wedding traditions

Presenting Wedding Gifts

The wedding gifts are presented to the girl’s family symbolizing respect and kindness towards the girl’s family as well as the capability of providing a good life for their daughter.

Selecting Wedding Date

The boy’s family asks the fortune-teller to choose a date according to the astrological book when the proper time to hold the wedding ceremony.

Wedding Ceremony

The wedding ceremony begins with the groom and his party meeting the bride in her home. Before the wedding day, at night the bride’s dowry would be sent to the boy’s house that represented her social status and wealth. The hair bride will be tied up with colorful cotton threads and she wears a red skirt as Chinese believe that red foreshadows delight.

On the arrival, there will be music and firecrackers. The bride will be led along the red carpet and the groom is also in a red gown. The groom will kowtow three times to worship the heaven, parents, and spouse. Then, the new couple will go to their bridal chamber and guests will be treated to a feast.

On the night of the wedding day, there is a custom to banter the newlyweds in order to know each other. On the third day, the new couple goes back to the bride’s parents’ home to have a dinner party including relatives.


There are several steps in Chinese wedding traditions that are commonly recognized as three letters and six etiquettes. Traditional Chinese wedding arrangement has a long procession and will be decided not by the young couple but by the wishes of their parents.

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